Thursday was our 3 year wedding anniversary, and our 4 year “relationship” anniversary (the anniversary of when we started dating). I never thought I would get married – indeed, my best friends called me a liar when I announced it in 2012 – but when I met my husband, we became fast friends and I realized that for the first time in my life, I could actually imagine growing old with someone not just growing old at the same time. Plus he likes my kid, which sucks for him but is great for me!